Well again,I'm really really sorry and I really hope everything works out.
~Kitkat

thanks Merry Christmas

(1) I might be able to help out here, I help all of my friends with relationship problems. I could give second opinions. But these  are the problems I don't have any idea how to solve.

(2) Okay. My Dad was in the Navy so we had to move around. A LOT. Every 2 or 3 years we'd have to wipe the slate clean and move somewhere new; leaving friends and crushes behind. Now he's retired from the Navy and on a new job, so no more moving around. (Yay!)

 But the last place I lived ((Texas)) I had to leave behind someone I insanely liked. On my last week there, he kissed me. It was nice to know that he liked me as well, but I practically jumped onto a plane before I could tell him anything.

Now I'm living in a different town, and not moving. Every time I get a crush at school or at camps, I feel like I'm betraying him. And sometimes even wonder if he still likes me.

(3) My friends and I are weird.  Even I admit it!!! There's five girls in our small closely knit group. And uh one guy. One of my friends (Ashley (Name changed for the sake of the internet)) really likes him (Jack (Name changed)). But everyone agrees that he probably likes me. And I don't even like him! I only like Jack as a friend! Hopefully Jack isn't reading this because he goes on WCRPG...

1:go ahead,maybe more then just me will help. Everyone can help after their problem is solved.

2:well ,your done moving,so that's good. But,don't feel like your betraying him. Do you two speak at all?And when he kissed you,he knew you were going away(right?) And I'm guessing you still like him. Just a guess.  But dont feel like your betraying him.

And 3:if he does like u,well you can't do anything about it. If he does something on that,then just say no ,I'm sorry  blalbittyblah. You get what I'm trying to say. Anyway,and tell 'Ashley' that she has nothing to worry and about becaue you don't like him and he's all hers.

Hope this helps,prouby not my best though.

Kitkat

Thanks! XD And it doesn't help that people at school assume I like him back.

Just tell them that you don't ,if they don't believe you,tell them that you like someone else but you can't tell them who it is

Kitkat

I know, thanks

(Woo hoo, back for a second question! XD My life is so pathetic...

Just wondering... for four years, I really liked this guy. Most people thought he liked me back. Last summer, he asked me on a date. That was the last time I saw him for a while after that, even though we lived less than a minute away. And the freakin' idiot didn't call, nor come over, nor acknowledge in any way I existed!!! He changed schools. The next time I saw him was 5 weeks into the school-year, I had called him and a few friends up to go to a fair, 2 months after the last time I'd seen him. I thought it would all be the same. He ignored me the whole entire time, and broke my heart.

Now, I just want to ask, am I over him?! I think I am, but I'm not sure... I think about him probably once daily, but only because tons of girls say his name and say he's hot; he looks pretty cute... I dream of him when I'm screaming at him to get a life... and I hope one day he will come asking for me back so I can slam the door in his face, kick him, and scream "NNNNNOOOOO!!!!" But, I still think he's cute, and think about him daily. Once in a while, I even get nostaglic and think about the times together. But I haven't had another boyfriend since, so I automatically think of him during a love song for about 5 seconds before I try to picture someTHING else, not another person.

Am I over him?

In my opinion, I think you are and you aren't. You're over him because he ignored you and/or treated you badly. You aren't because you think about him daily, I think you should try your best to forget him or even think of his bad traits instead of the good traits. If you can't, then you aren't over him.
I know it's terrible, but whether you're over someone or not is your decision, I'm only trying to help your decision.

Thanks. Usually, I just think about his bad qualities. The only good one I ever admit to is he's cute.

Woah...That must be confusing. If i were you,i would just wait because(a)the guy should ask you out(not saying that being a girl and asking a guy out is bad,its actually really brave)and (b)well im just too shy to do anything. Now if i think from it from my friends view,she would say yes,he proubly and definatly likes you,so ask him out giiirrrll. If he says yes,AWESOME,and if he says no,DONT BE SAD,its his fault for saying no,and tou cant do anything to change his mind. And im really sorry if he does say no. I reeaaallly hope this helps,(probubly not though).

KitKat

Ok so here's my problem...

Me and my friend Ivy (name has been changed) both have a crush on this super cute guy, (But I don't like him as much as Ivy) Connor (name has been changed), at school. Me and Ivy hang out with him and we are all friends.

Then one day we were all hanging out and played truth or dare. We each dared each other to say who we liked... and well... I think you get the point. He found out that we liked him and he refused to say who he liked. So me and Ivy guess our names and he said maybe. We guessed other girls names but he would only say maybe. I went home confused and feeling like me and Ivy pushed him to much.

after all of that we are all still buds, but it's weird now between the three of us. He makes me laugh and he's SUPER cute! Whenever anyone of us brings up what happened that one day, we hurry and change to another topic.

Ivy says he likes me, and so do others. But Ivy has known Connor longer, and I think that he likes her, not me.

My question is, does he like me or Ivy? I would be really happy for Ivy if he liked her, and trust me I've been trying to get over him, but if he liked me and asked me out, I think Ivy will be crushed! She always talks about how sweet and funny he is. Does he like me?

Ok,i cant really say who he likes,because im not really there and know the entire stich. What i can say is,dont let a boy or likes get into your friendship. I learned the hard way that its really hard loosing a friend because of a boy and its really bad. Thats all i cam tell you.
Good luck
KitKat

Thanks Kit-kat

Woah...That must be confusing. If i were you,i would just wait because(a)the guy should ask you out(not saying that being a girl and asking a guy out is bad,its actually really brave)and (b)well im just too shy to do anything. Now if i think from it from my friends view,she would say yes,he proubly and definatly likes you,so ask him out giiirrrll. If he says yes,AWESOME,and if he says no,DONT BE SAD,its his fault for saying no,and tou cant do anything to change his mind. And im really sorry if he does say no. I reeaaallly hope this helps,(probubly not though).

KitKat

I have asked him out... Twice... But the last time I did he said he can't go out with anyone right now but that me and him could go out at the end of the year... I dunno if he was just saying that though...

Hello, hello.. Now, to begin, I'm terrible at talking to other people about my feelings. When ever I do it, I feel like I've put my whole trouble on them, so, I'm mustering alot of energy right now to do this. Please, even though this might not be the biggest problem in the world, I kindly ask you to try to bear with me. But, that's not my problem right now...

This might not be the kind of broken-hearted story that you'd expect, it has nothing to do with a crush, or romance, or that kind of trouble, it's about my mom, and I'm hoping that you'll have some advice, or help of any sort...

So let me begin...

When me, my dad, my sister, and mom moved here, everything seemed perfect. The house that we now live in is gorgeous, and I love it with every wall. Though, there was a problem.. Every time it rains, the whole back-yard floods, and gets under the house. The lady that sold us this house didn't include to tell us about this in the papers, and therefore, she lied illegally. At first, my mother was a timid sad, and got upset here and there, and I didn't understand, yet let it be, as it didn't bother me then. As time gradually went by, my mother got more and more upset about it, until one day, the stress broke her. She became mentally depressed, and she crys, A LOT. I thought she was supposed to be my mom, the strong one of the family, the one who holds me when I get scared, or beaten up at school, or something of that manner, but no.. She just crys. It seems that not a day goes by without her shedding a tear. I don't understand what I ever did, said, or was, but she started to yell at me. Of course, every parent does, but this wasn't like her. Every day when I came home from school, she'd check my grades, and I make A B honor roll, of course. But that doesn't seem to please her, she wanted more from me. I attended high-knowledge classes, called GATE, for the kids with higher averages than most-kids, and I was proud. But when I started to not turn in a few assignments, she punished me, yelled at me, and I'm sure, hit me. I swear I tried my best to keep up with them, and I still do, but my efforts didn't fill her expectations for me. She yelled at me, slammed her fists on the table so hard everything fell off, and screamed at the top of her lungs that what I was doing was stupid. But I thought only stupid people do stupid things? Am I stupid? I didn't think I was, I was making honor roll, right? Every day when I came home, I flinched when ever she said something, and I still do. I kept on forgetting, that was my problem, my memory isn't regular. So, I came home expecting that, and every day I wanted to hit her, slap her, yell back, tell her I hated her, but I knew thats not the way I should handle things. And so I grew stressed myself. I had insomnnia, and I still do. I can't sleep, and dark circles hang under my eyes. That whole fiasco is done now, yet I know, not permanetly. Now, everytime she talks to me, the more I feel useless. She crys after every word I say, it seems. Am I really that much of a disappointment? What's wrong with me? I don't know, but thoughts have been going through my head. I'm 12, and young of course. I already don't get enough sleep, prone to migranes, worry about everything, conserve my feelings, and now I'm a disappointment to my mother? I've considered self-harming, over-dosing on pills, starving myself, running away.... But I don't know.. I know I could never cut my self, heck, I can't even stab the straw into a capri-sun! But the others, I could most-likely do, yet I don't know. I just don't want to be such a burden to my mother anymore, I don't want her to look at me like this! I don't wanna live through this! What should I do?!

Please help!

 With Love,
     Owlfrost-Daughter Of Oceanbird

HI!

I'm the same age as you, so I bet I can help A LOT. (Well I TURN 12 in May, but that's beside the point.) It looks like you mother's depression caused her to be abusive, which is sadly what a lot of kids go through. She may have told you things that made your self esteem go down, but all you need to do is tell yourself No. Always think on the bright side of things! You get on A-B Honor Role! (I get on C+ Honor Roll!) You're on the GATE classes! If that doesn't work, make yourself laugh. People think that the phrase 'Laughter is the best medicine' is cheesy, but it's true! Tell a friend that you want her/him to try their best to make you laugh when you're upset. If you don't have a friend at that exact moment, look at pictures of cats online. As for your mother, I just hope that (If you have a dad) your Dad knows what's going on. Talk to school counselers, they won't tell anyone about your problem without your permission. Theones at my school give you late slips to bring to the class that you're missing. (Or you could go at lunch) Overall just don't lose hope.

Thanks! I geuss I should keep myself happy, and say no. I'm trying to give her gifts and saying 'I love you' more. That might make her happy, yeah. And I'm usually the source of laughter at school and at home.. Yeah, I'm crazy, and a good thing is, is that my parents MIGHT be getting me a cat for my birthday this april, I'm turning 12. Yeah, I know I said I was 12 in the recent post, but I was just doing that because my b-day is so close. But thanks for the help once again, it seems like those were the only words I needed to hear!

 With Love,

 Owlfrost-Daughter Of Oceanbird

I'm glad I could help. Just always remember, every joke, every funny face, and every bit of laughter counts! I hope you get that cat and, Happy Birthday!